Plan a Novel Experience
Choose something new to do together
Plan a Novel Experience
Novelty creates bonding. When couples try new things together, they release dopamine and create shared memories that strengthen their connection. Today you’ll plan an adventure - big or small - that you’ll experience together for the first time.
The key is that it’s new for both of you. This puts you on equal footing as beginners, creates natural conversation topics, and gives you a shared experience to reference in the future.
Don’t overthink it - the “newness” is more important than the activity itself. Even trying a new coffee shop or taking a different route for your walk counts as a novel experience.
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Steps to Follow
- 1 Brainstorm 5 activities you've never done as a couple (10 minutes)
- 2 Pick one to do within the next 3 days (5 minutes)
- 3 Schedule a specific time for it (5 minutes)
Ideas & Suggestions
- New restaurant, hiking trail, museum, art class, volunteer work, escape room
Success Looks Like
You have a new experience scheduled for this week