Day 16 of 30

Practice Full Presence

Be completely present with each other

Time Required
20 minutes
Best Time
During and after your daily talk time

Practice Full Presence

In our distracted world, giving someone your complete, undivided attention is a rare gift. Today you’ll practice being fully present with each other without the competing pull of phones, TV, or mental to-do lists.

The silence at the beginning helps you both transition from the busyness of the day into connection mode. Don’t try to fill the quiet - let it create space for you to simply be together.

Eye contact during conversation deepens intimacy and ensures you’re truly seeing each other. The agenda-free time afterward lets your connection settle without immediately rushing back to tasks or distractions.

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Steps to Follow

  1. 1 Put all devices in another room
  2. 2 Sit facing each other for 5 minutes in comfortable silence
  3. 3 During your talk time, maintain eye contact
  4. 4 After talking, spend 10 minutes together with no agenda (just being)

Success Looks Like

You both feel more present and connected without distractions